Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Family ties

I can remember the times when family was the one that had your back and would never let you fall. What happened to those times now days its family who's causing all the heartache and pains. So when is enough ENOUGH? Shouldn't it be that because you are older than me that you should be teaching me right from wrong and not showing me everything that is of no good to me?

It's time we stop employing the destructive behaviors of those that are close to use even though we love them dearly. Often giving so much of you to others you leave nothing to give to yourself. Why must we neglect our self for those we see don't want anything better than what's in front of them at that moment. Never allow anyone to deter you from the path in which you were destined to walk. You can't live the lives of everyone so at what point will you learn to love them and let go and allow god to take over where you have to stop?

I'm not by any means telling you to turn your back on your family, friends or loved ones. What I am saying is that you can only live the life that you have and not the life of others. If I see you going down the wrong path all I can do is give you advice as to what you should do I can't make the decision for you. Not all ties are good some you have to cut loose. If you have someone in your life that always allow your light to shine those are the people you need to keep but if they are always taking from you and never giving then those are the ones you need to let be. Move forward and move on.

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