If I’m not trying to force my beliefs and issues on you then don’t try to force your beliefs and issues on me. I’ve learned that when people come from different backgrounds they don’t think or act the same. Everyone’s morals and values are not always equal. For instance if you come a life of love, respect and commitment from childhood to adulthood then that’s what you know. But you may find someone that came from a drug infested, abusive childhood to adulthood that is what they know. So in each one’s eyes this is a way of life, we live with blinders of our past over our eyes. Not to say either is right or wrong but to be able to come to a place of understanding and compromise.
Life will have its struggles and achievements truth is it’s all about how we deal with them. There is no manual to show you when this happens in life this are how you should handle it. Some like me rely on the gospel of the Lord those who don’t believe in a higher power rely on other gods, ideology, scientology and theology. However we believe there comes a time when we must be able to agree to disagree because of how our beliefs are rooted in us. I kneel before my god so that I am able to stand before man. As long as we are living we will come against some things in life, we have to find the strength from our inner being to fight our demons. Life however will equip you with what it is need in order to overcome obstacles, cross bridges and swim through the rough seas.
Learn to listen to the voice of your destiny and not the voices of others who want you to live your destiny through their eyes. Never let the chatter of what everyone else wants drowns out your needs. Even if we are headed in the same direction we are still on different paths in life. No two footprints will be the same, no two hurts will be the same, and no two ambitions will be the same. All may have similarities but never the same. How we see things interpret things are always different even if we are trying to reach the same goals. I may have to go through hell and high water to reach my goal, you may only have high waters but we keep pressing forward in the same direction just on different paths.
With every decision you make first find peace in your situation so you later have no regrets. I tell people the devil knows your heart just as god does. You have to know your shepherds voice so that you know the choice you made aligns with the will for your life. There is this thing called “free will” god grants you free will to make your own choices but when you are off your predestined course all you find is chaos. Also there is a season for everything in our lives so what was good last season doesn’t mean it is good for your new season. Evolve in life come out of being stagnant riding the waves of that old stigmatisms.
