Love Lust or Lies- Monya Williams

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	Author, poet motivational speaker.

Description

I'm a student of the art of poetry and a writer of passion. The sensual melodies of life and love are my inspiration.Leaving the mind to be opened to various possibilities and discovering your truths about love the ups and downs of it and the lies people will tell in order to get it keep it or destroy it. Uncovering the misconceptions placed on lust as an excuse to use love as a weapon to do unjustifiable actions to those they love or those that love them. Love, lust or lies is about realizations of the heart, life and experiences a reading that will not only change your mind but your life. It gives freedom to be the person your destined to be and love who loves you back. Never allow your self to fall in a situation because of what others think but possess the ability to be honest with yourself and true to others.

Biography

Monya Williams is a author and poet in her hometown of Jacksonville, Florida. She has been published in The Best Poems and Poets of 2002, The Best Poems and Poets of 2004, The International Who’s Who In Poetry, Timeless Voices, Mythology Of The Heart, The Layers Of Our Souls, aside from publishing her own works such as Poetically Speaking and Crying Hearts capturing the hearts and ears of her readers with profound poetry. Making various appearances as a spoken word artist in Jacksonville’s Boomtown for poets and others that love the arts. Exploring, understanding, the truths behind love, the confusing of lust for love, while bringing forth the lies that started it all. This is her first novel of short stories as she embarks on new grounds captivating the readers with her exotic novel of short stories.

Relationships and Honesty

These are just my thoughts and if you are reading this then feel free to leave a comment but don't expect a debate or discussion thanks...

I've been in several relationships and have learned from them all. I was never one to go into another relationship still holding on and wishing to be with the person that I just got out of a relationship with. Tell me what is the purpose of getting into a new relationship and still desiring the last one you were in a relationship with. To make matters worse you get engaged and then married to this new person yet you are still trying to pursue a relationship with your ex. If you have moved on and they have moved on why are you still holding on? How can you enter into holy matrimony with someone yet you are still pursuing other people.

Since when did getting married and continue being a hoe become the latest trend for marriage? How can you stand before god and vow your love, life and all to someone you are clearly not in love with? 
You have cheated on everyone you have married and for whatever reason you cannot see the dysfunction in that. Or is it that you just don't want to. When did it become the thing to do to sleep with your ex boyfriend/girlfriend partner then marry them? When did it become the latest trend to talk about and hold conferences on being faithful to your spouse, when you are always the one cheating?

Because there are so many good and deserving people seeking the right mate it is hard because of the cheaters and liars. How can anyone learn to trust especially when you began to see the PASTOR of the church doing such act of betrayal? Don't get me wrong I know it has been going on throughout the ages but now it has become a trend.
Some say that the same-sex marriages has corrupted the sanctity of marriage but in my eyes those who use marriage for other reasons than to love, honor, cherish and obey the one they are vowing their lives to are the ones destroying the sacredness of marriage. 

I have found that there are so many people who rather save face for their indiscretions of betraying their wife/husband when they admit to cheating, instead of trying to stay with that good woman/ man they would rather end their marriage and marry the one who help destroy their marriage. See we as humans complain of not being able to find a good man/woman but when we get them we don't know how to treat them or keep them. Yet when you find out the grass isn't greener on the other side that it is artificial turf you want to come back. By that time someone else has begun to appreciate what you didn't want to.

I'm writing this from experience. I was blessed with that one person who is my everything and the person that let her go is still trying to get what they once had back. But the truth is we have a choice as to how we make our beds then we have to lay in it. I see and hear so much with unhappy people because of bad decisions made. I've learned it is better to work it out with someone that is willing to fight for you than someone that just want to f*$k you. A true god fearing man or woman is hard to come by so when you get them hold on to them. There is no perfect relationship but there are relationships that are perfect for you.

I'm thankful and grateful for my blessing and couldn't imagine my life without my wife. I can't speak for all but I can speak for some. Learn what it is to love and be loved before you try love. True love comes from within once you learn what it is to love yourself then you have tools to work with when desiring to love someone else. I don't have all the answers but I do have a testimony as to finding love and holding on to it. I'm someone that loves love and want everyone to experience the same kind of love I have if not better. But you first have to be truthful about what it is you truly want. If all you want to do is have multiple partners I don't condone it but don't drag someone who wants to settle down into your whirlwind. Be honest with yourself and others before capturing someone's heart.

Monya Williams - Love, Lust or Lies

Just Right

In life there will always someone that doesn't agree with what you do or say and that's fine because they have the right to feel the way they do. But how I see it you can use all the negative comments and attitudes as motivation to strive even harder at what it is your doing. Let no man/woman have control over how you feel, think, love and live it is your life and you only get one.

The way you know your doing something right is when everyone has something to say either their jealous or envious of what it is your doing because they didn't have the know how or desire to do it until you put your stamp on it. We all have the ability to make a difference in whatever our passion or dreams are but if we never put forth the effort it will never happen.  See I love my stone-cutters because all they are doing is preparing me to handle anything negative that comes my way and not lose my cool when it comes.

If i helped you write your memoir the way you felt it should be written someone is going to tell you how your story should be told that's just human nature. We have a right to react to what is being said or done but it's never what anyone says but what you answer to and believe. Lose no sleep over what you feel to be true because of someone else disagreement with you in fact make sure you sleep even better that night. 

Life is about choices right, wrong or indifferent it's up to you how you will chose because no one else can chose for you and it is in right standing with you. Get wisdom and with that get understanding allow god to guide your steps that way you know your path is the right one and not the one man saw fit for you to travel.

 

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Random thoughts

Why is it when your trying to strive for something all the nay sayer's tend to lift their heads. But once you arrive at that point in your life they come back only to say I told you that you would make it. Left alone with no support from the majority but there are those few needles in a hay stack that stand by your side.

Since when were we granted the right to judge one as to who they will become and where they will be in life. Often those that have a lot to say are the ones that aren't trying to further their lives but hold back yours. Whatever happened to lending an helping hand because you could help someone out and not look for anything in return. Now days people don't want to help you unless they can get something out of the deal. So the saying "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" has a new meaning. Now it's "I will do unto you as long as you can give me something back."


Most call me nonsocial but I see it as being around those that are able to add value to my life and not take it away. If I am always giving and you are always taking this is not equaling out one of us keep coming up short. People if your going to do something nice for someone do it out the kindness of your heart and not because you later want to throw it back in their faces. I had an individual so something I thought was just the sweetest thing a person could do for someone only to later find out how much they hate that they did it. You never know how a person will feel or react, so please do whatever it is with sincere intentions.

These are just some things I've noticed about the nation we have become far from morals and values. Selfishness runs ramped in this new society I use my own experiences to get a point across even though so many of us face these challenges often.