Past

Tell me if I hold on to my past can I expect my present to have a future? People why even start a new relationship when you have yet to give up on your past one? You take baggage of one relationship and add it to the next one and so on and so forth. Learn how to be fair to the person you so claim you love. Don't take away from the person who loves you to their dreams because of your selfish ways.

"My love for you can never be selfish."

"This is called true love"

We need to learn how to get out of our own selfish ways to see others enjoy the same things that we have already had a chance to be blessed with. What kind of person am I to block you of your dreams because I don't like the way my dream came to pass? How can I say I want to spend my life with you when I clinch tight to what I had in the past. I can't seem to grab hold of the things that are of today because my hands are full of yesterday.

So all I have to say to those who feel like their future are being dimmed because the one they love holds their past so dear to heart. These are the times when we must learn to live, love and accept what has gone on enough to let go.

"Let go and let God."

Starting over can be scary.

"So believe in you"

Family ties

I can remember the times when family was the one that had your back and would never let you fall. What happened to those times now days its family who's causing all the heartache and pains. So when is enough ENOUGH? Shouldn't it be that because you are older than me that you should be teaching me right from wrong and not showing me everything that is of no good to me?

It's time we stop employing the destructive behaviors of those that are close to use even though we love them dearly. Often giving so much of you to others you leave nothing to give to yourself. Why must we neglect our self for those we see don't want anything better than what's in front of them at that moment. Never allow anyone to deter you from the path in which you were destined to walk. You can't live the lives of everyone so at what point will you learn to love them and let go and allow god to take over where you have to stop?

I'm not by any means telling you to turn your back on your family, friends or loved ones. What I am saying is that you can only live the life that you have and not the life of others. If I see you going down the wrong path all I can do is give you advice as to what you should do I can't make the decision for you. Not all ties are good some you have to cut loose. If you have someone in your life that always allow your light to shine those are the people you need to keep but if they are always taking from you and never giving then those are the ones you need to let be. Move forward and move on.