Romans 12:9 KJV
Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is
God is not the author of confusion, often we tend to step out of the will of God because we choose not to be patient and wait on him to move in our lives. We are to love as the bible says so. Too many times we try to force people to love the way we feel they should instead of accepting the only way in which they know how to love. Love is about compromising give and take, not all about self.